Thursday, November 2, 2006

遇上穿Prada的惡魔

其實惡魔上司不一定穿Prada,不只於時尚界出現,亦不只初出芧蘆的打工仔才會遇上。在《穿Prada的惡魔》的故事?,女主角Andy在公司所遇到的種種,都值得在職場打滾的你來個小小的反思。〈相信很多人已看過這齣電影,今天才選這作為題材,至少不會被讀者破口大罵說我透露了劇情吧!〉
不少朋友跟我說,看罷這齣電影也仿如身同感受,大家都在扮演著電影?的Andy。剛畢業的Andy在一個機緣下,當上國際時尚雜誌知名總編Miranda的助理,從此由簡單生活跳進五光十色的時尚圈子,面對人生各種的掙扎。我沒有資格去談論這電影,只是戲中某些點子,的確值得上班族細味。

穿出自己的品牌

女主角Andy初上班時,被同事取笑其衣著打扮;及後漸懂得包裝自己,甚至每天像演出時裝騷一樣。當然,現實?我們無法像女主角般炫耀名牌衣飾,但最重要是對自己公司和職位有認知,像Andy身為知名時裝雜誌總編的助理,當然要掌握潮流資訊,裝扮也要具時尚觸覺。有時,還要注意上司的打扮,顏色和款式都不能比上司更突出,喧賓奪主只會惹惡魔討厭。往日曾遇上一位老闆,對我們說:「作為時尚潮流雜誌工作者,什麼是品味?」穿上Burberry外套連價錢牌也掛在衣服外的他,指著自己說:「這,就是品味啦!」這位惡魔上司,只會對一身名牌的同事上下打量、對沒有名牌打扮的同事投以鄙視眼光,他口中所謂的品味就是名牌。我要說的是,擁有如此低劣品格的人,即使身上名牌服如何閃耀也顯不出一點品味。今時今日,單憑工作努力不夠,人靠衣裝是事實,但胡亂披搭大堆名牌在身上,我認為這並非品味,而是沒自信的表現。要於合適環境穿恰如其分的衣飾,穿出自己的個性和身分才最重要。

替上司解決問題 非增添問題

上班族常怨道,上司都沒有告訴我怎樣做,同事自私,休想他們會助我一把。遇上充滿耐心教導你的上司,大概是幸運。有些上司如戲?的Miranda,凡事只會簡短的說一次,別妄想她會指示你怎樣做,只要你多問一句已被罵得狗血淋頭。你要做的,是每次細心聽上司的指令,再想辦法解決問題;也別指望同事主動教導你,或像Andy同事Emily,在利益衝突下都只會自保,況且,教學不是他們的責任,你只好細心觀察別人怎樣做,從中學習。打工仔是盡力替上司解決各種麻煩,而不是每天為她多添千噸煩惱。像Andy幾經辛苦替Miranda找來還未推出的「哈利波特」故事,還主動替她影印兩分,因為Miranda擁有一對雙胞胎;有時不等上司說出口,已主動多做一點功夫,也能令惡魔上司對你改觀。

from yahoo:http://hk.lifestyle.yahoo.com/061101/323/1vn5m.html

Saturday, October 14, 2006

擦肩而過

我不是想一個人獨佔有你,只希望你需要我。

Saturday, October 7, 2006

TO ALL...

THANKS FOR YOUR LOVE......

Sunday, September 24, 2006

阿沁好似阿蓮

杯子 (遺失的美好原創版)
作詞:阿沁 作曲:阿沁 編曲:阿沁

我的付出不會停止 因為杯子他會陪你堅持
他為我裝滿心事 不會計較在哪個位置

你的愛在何時停止 忘了杯子曾經給我暗示
我想默默守護你的天使 小心擦拭杯子的印子

* 手心圍著你愛喝的果汁 遲遲等不到我最愛的影子
我總是那麼容易迷失 沒有發現時間慢慢停止

# 還習慣有你喝過的杯子 彷彿能感覺碰觸你的手指(心事)
他身上指紋反覆交織 烙印著 你愛我的方式
我的付出不會停止 小心的 小心的擦拭著杯子
你卻從來不去掩飾 不需要 不需要 解釋

repect* # #

Wednesday, September 13, 2006

撐不下去...缺堤了...

今日心情差到極點,我也不知自已怎麼了...
由去完廣州那天起,就怪怪的...
想哭,想被抱...卻只被忽略...

很早已明暸問題最終要由自己解決,別人最多只能給上支持鼓勵,
但我放不開...我是否有點抑鬱...?

不喜歡裝著沒有事情發生過的處理方法...
究竟是我執著...? 還是你太不顧我感受...?

願意吵,就是願意去檢討。
但我們從來都係分開吵的...
真的很討厭自己心軟,一再給自己心痛自虐的機會......

漸漸......
聽綺貞的歌也失去療效了...

甚麼也自己撐下去,很辛苦...
想有人對自己好,並不是想人煩我。
這不是矛盾,只是人的問題而已...

為何真正關心我的人...都是不明白我的呢...?
不想解釋,最後又換來逃避的形容。

Tuesday, September 12, 2006

不知我有耐性待在這兒多久

raining day...
兩回的等待...why?
why always is me...

trouble boss...
website problem...
david help...thanks so much...

Saturday, September 9, 2006

單薄如水 - 觸不到...亦留唔往...

MY MEDICINE

Walking down the street tonight
Like every night now here to go
No one on the street to night
And no one waiting up at home

Watching as my cigarette is spinning smoke into the wind
Watching as the time goes by
I think about the fix I'm in

Only you can come to save me
Being all alone has made me shake down
Break down

Give me everything I'm missing
Give me deep and soft, sweet kissing
Touch my skin

My medicine
All I want is you to hold and comfort me come on you're
My medicine
When I'm feeling lost and weak you're what I'm wishing give me
My medicine
I can feel a passion from my one affliction
Loving him is medicine

I got hooked on your love nicotine, yeah

Walking down this lonely road
I found you spinning up like smoke

You don't even have to chase me
Waiting for so long has made me stressed up
Messed up

Give me everything I'm missing
Give me deep and soft, sweet kissing
Touch my skin
I'm giving in you're

My medicine
All I want is you to hold and comfort me come on you're
My medicine
When I'm feeling lost and weak you're what I'm wishing give me
My medicine
I can feel a passion from my one affliction
Loving him

Loving him is medicine
My medicine, yeah
Loving him is medicine
My medicine, yeah
Loving only him is medicine

Thursday, September 7, 2006

抽身的方法...?

BAD day...
today follow boss back to china AIA...

6:00 am - get up
6:50 am - leave home
7:10-15 am - realize i forget bring the most important thing...china visa, so i back home to get it...
really really nervous, then i dial three phone call...
also very very wrong action......



i really don't want to remember the china visa
i hate mobile phone so much like NANA...specially today...

bad timing...
bad guy...
bad mood...
bad weather....
how a awful day...!!!

i don't understand why i can stay here untill today...
am i abuse myself...

任性的女孩又闖禍了...
其實我想要的...只係一句"唔使驚"而已...

Friday, August 18, 2006

finish the escort exam

so good....^^~
----------
北極圈
作詞:F.I.R/林尚德/易家揚 作曲:阿沁 編曲:奧斯卡

今天 寂寞感覺忽然又出現
浮現 過去夢中的畫面
哭泣 因為不想偽裝悲傷那一面
當你 頭也不回離開北極圈

有誰能為我 撿起了傷痛 灑向了海中[天空] 能重新再來過

我不要聽藉口 我只想一人走掉
把淚流再街腳 我不過希望你會聽到
愛情化作 一片片冰雪單調
不用你多說 我現在通通都瞭

我不要求什麼 我只想不被打擾
把愛留再街腳 就當你永遠不會看到
記憶化作 極光出現那一秒
我開始微笑 以後會努力過的 很好

Monday, August 14, 2006

心被抽乾了...

過自已的時間...依家對我來說極為奢侈*-*"

Thursday, August 3, 2006

test

思考型(好學不倦,機智過人)

您具有退縮、聰明、專注、安靜、客觀的傾向。
您不愛表露情感,內向而自給自足,以疏遠冷漠而非害怕來展現自我。
您精通心智的分析,常說自己是「染上資訊毒癮的人」。
您喜歡事實和系統,將聰明才智投注於這個世界上只有少數人才明白的神?事物上。

優點:您的生活形態只求最低限度,只要一點點就過得去,簡化了物質的需求。

缺點:您以局外人的身分體驗日常生活,和自己以及外在事件皆保持距離,因此無法輕易感受即時的感覺和想法。

愛情:親密關係成功與否,在於伴侶對您需要私隱的諒解及尊重。
允許您擁有個人空間的人,才會得到您的歡心,任何侵犯或被要求的經驗都只會令您退縮。
您不輕易流露感情,只是把關係放在心靈的某個間隔?。
「當我們開車外出時,她在車上睡覺或看書,並不把注意力放在我身上,不過她還是在我身邊。」

安定方位:挑戰型在安定的狀態下您會變得願意承擔,既明確又平易近人。

壓力方位:活躍型當面對感情的壓力或情緒對抗時,您會變得享樂主義。您會搜尋所有可能的逃脫策略,不願對任何事情做出承諾,而且顯得慌慌張張。

建意:接納身體的感受和情緒的出現准許自己奢侈享樂避免原地踏步,嘗試採取行動

最渴望:全知,洞悉一切
最恐懼:對身邊事物感到無知,束手無策

最難達到的美德:忘我 (Detachment)
最難克服的執念:吝嗇 (Stinginess)

http://www.parttimelove.com/Assessories/NineType/Paper1.aspx

無傘子

濕鬼曬又好鬼凍...

想找份新工......

Friday, July 28, 2006

Frente - Bizarre Love Triangle

Frente - Bizarre Love Triangle

Every time I think of you
I get a shot right through into a bolt of blue
It's no problem of mine but it's a problem I find
Living a life that I can't leave behind
There's no sense in telling me
The wisdom of a fool won't set you free
But that's the way that it goes
And it's what nobody knows
And every day my confusion grows
Every time I see you falling
I get down on my knees and pray
I'm waiting for that final moment
You'll say the words that I can't say

I feel fine and I feel good
I feel like I never should
Whenever I get this way, I just don't know what to say
Why can't we be ourselves like we were yesterday
I’m not sure what this could mean
I don't think you're what you seem
I do admit to myself
That if I hurt someone else
Then we'd never see just what we're meant to be
Every time I see you falling
I get down on my knees and pray
I'm waiting for that final moment
You'll say the words that I can't say

好好聽既歌...^^

Thursday, July 27, 2006

自己的時間

心很肯定...對不起...

我的人生...我自己決定...
我的快樂...我自己足以給予...

人們在來來去去的去尋找自己的下一站目標...
也許快樂...
也許期待...
也許豐富...
也許貧瘠...
就這樣一天一天,累積出屬於自己的生活方式...
而我的方式,就是可以瞬間遺忘喧鬧,安靜的與自己相處...
即使是在這個慌亂的都市裡,只想不被打擾...

擁有自己的時間......

Tuesday, July 18, 2006

第一堂的外遊領隊課程

今晚上了第一堂的外遊領隊課程,
instructor是個胖胖的阿sir..
經驗好像很豐富..

最近都好像被水果酒泡著...怪怪的...

Friday, July 14, 2006

我很快樂,也很滿足。

時間是留給人的,不是給工作的。

Friday, June 30, 2006

Time's a Wastin'


Walk the Line 裡面的一首曲子 - Time's a Wastin'
很可惜soundtrack 裡沒有收錄...

Time's A Wastin' - Carl Smith w/ June Carter Cash lyrics

Carl Smith: Now I've got arms
June Carter Cash: And I've got arms
Together: Let's get together and use those arms
Female: Let's go
Together: Time's a wastin'

Carl Smith: I've got lips
June Carter Cash: And I've got lips
Together: Let's get together and use those lips
June Carter Cash: Let's go
Together: Time's a wastin'

June Carter Cash: A cake's no good
If you don't mix the batter and bake it

Carl Smith: And love's just a bubble
If you don't take the trouble to make it

Together: So if you're free to go with me
I'll take you quicker than 1-2-3
June Carter Cash: Let's go
Together: Time's a wastin'

---- Instrumental Interlude ----

Carl Smith: Now I've got blues
June Carter Cash: And I've got blues
Together: Let's get acquainted and lose those blues
June Carter Cash: Let's go
Together: Time's a wastin'

Carl Smith: Now I've got feet
June Carter Cash: And I've got feet
Together: Let's start to walk with a lover's beat
June Carter Cash: Let's go
Together: Time's a wastin'

June Carter Cash: You've got me feelin' love
Like I never have felt it
Carl Smith: You're full of sugar
And I'm think I'm the burner to melt it

Together: Now I've got schemes
And you've got schemes
Let's get together and dream some dreams
June Carter Cash: Let's go
Together: Time's a wastin'

You already all down there...

The Movie...Walk the Line...
Johnny Cash and June Carter music and love story...

Tuesday, June 6, 2006

C'est la vie

這就是生活,生活就是如此。

Saturday, April 29, 2006

瓶子裡面裝的是水...

像一個漂亮的瓶子...
人們往往總是只看到瓶子,而看不到瓶子裡面裝的是水...

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